Playing bongos seated: stand or no stand ?

I was looking at some videos where the seated player was using a bongos stand. In some other videos the player was holding the bongos the traditional way between the legs. Now, for myself, I prefer the traditional way because I feel closer to the instrument (not just physically), and believe I have more control over the texture/tonalities/transients.
Another issue to me with the bongos stand I was looking at, is that the bongos are held by a tensioning nylon belt solely on the center block and nowhere else. I have no doubt the belt/stand hardware is plenty strong, but to me all the mechanical stress from playing now will focus on the drums and center block areas near the crossing bolts. I know there are reinforcement plates inside the two drums, but I can't help wondering about the perennity of such setup.
So I was curious about what the long time players here do prefer (stand or not), and their thoughts about it.

Another issue to me with the bongos stand I was looking at, is that the bongos are held by a tensioning nylon belt solely on the center block and nowhere else. I have no doubt the belt/stand hardware is plenty strong, but to me all the mechanical stress from playing now will focus on the drums and center block areas near the crossing bolts. I know there are reinforcement plates inside the two drums, but I can't help wondering about the perennity of such setup.
So I was curious about what the long time players here do prefer (stand or not), and their thoughts about it.
