Trouble tuning new hembra skin

Hello everyone!
I am new to the forum and this is my first post, so first of all thanks to the whole community for all the knowledge that you have shared here over the years. Congaplace is the best!
I have the following problem. Two days days ago I mounted a new skin on the hembra of my 90s Meinl Marathon bongó. I ordered the skin from Banux (http://www.banux.de), white cattle (cow, I guess) with polymer treatment in 1,2 - 1,6 mm thickness. It is a very nice skin, even thickness and quite smooth. After drying it is now just over 2 mm thick, which is exactly what I was looking for. A big thanks to Mike for the helpful advice!
After mounting the skin, I tightened the lugs evenly with small tension and let it dry off. Everything looked fine. However, I am now having a hard time tuning the drum, as two opposite lugs have over a half tone higher pitch than the other two. If we number the lugs going around the drum as 1,2,3,4, then lugs 1 and 3 have both the same pitch but different than lugs 2 and 4, which have both the same pitch as well. So when I try to tune all lugs evenly in pitch, it gets really unbalanced on the tuning lugs (the nut has to go about 5 mm higher on two of the lugs). That doesn't look good, and I fear that the drum might get damaged if I keep it tuned like that.
I don't know if it's because the drum is out of round (which would be strange on both sides symmetrically, I think) or if I did or am doing something wrong.
Has anybody had the same problem or does anybody have a solution? Any suggestions will be much appreciated, since I am a quite confused right now.
Also: how long do you think it will take the skin to fully break in?
Thanks in advance!
I am new to the forum and this is my first post, so first of all thanks to the whole community for all the knowledge that you have shared here over the years. Congaplace is the best!
I have the following problem. Two days days ago I mounted a new skin on the hembra of my 90s Meinl Marathon bongó. I ordered the skin from Banux (http://www.banux.de), white cattle (cow, I guess) with polymer treatment in 1,2 - 1,6 mm thickness. It is a very nice skin, even thickness and quite smooth. After drying it is now just over 2 mm thick, which is exactly what I was looking for. A big thanks to Mike for the helpful advice!
After mounting the skin, I tightened the lugs evenly with small tension and let it dry off. Everything looked fine. However, I am now having a hard time tuning the drum, as two opposite lugs have over a half tone higher pitch than the other two. If we number the lugs going around the drum as 1,2,3,4, then lugs 1 and 3 have both the same pitch but different than lugs 2 and 4, which have both the same pitch as well. So when I try to tune all lugs evenly in pitch, it gets really unbalanced on the tuning lugs (the nut has to go about 5 mm higher on two of the lugs). That doesn't look good, and I fear that the drum might get damaged if I keep it tuned like that.
I don't know if it's because the drum is out of round (which would be strange on both sides symmetrically, I think) or if I did or am doing something wrong.
Has anybody had the same problem or does anybody have a solution? Any suggestions will be much appreciated, since I am a quite confused right now.
Also: how long do you think it will take the skin to fully break in?
Thanks in advance!