by Thomas Altmann » Wed Jun 23, 2010 6:54 pm
I am certain that a left-hand action will never feel exactly the same as a corresponding right hand action. You have to find an equivalent way to achieve a balanced action between left and right.
If you have your drum (correctly) tilted at an angle, then consequently you must strike the conga in a slightly different way with your left than with the right hand to adapt to this position.
The ability to play a good slap stroke is an indicator for relaxation. Once you have found your way, chances are that your left hand becomes the better slap hand for some time.
Trying to consciously control your left hand is like searching in the wrong place. Drop your arm, turn your wrist and loosen your fingers for an accelerated motion. Listen to the results and sort out the successful tries to find direction. Breath calmly, normal. Be less pushy and more reactive to let your body learn.
(My 2 cents) - Thomas