by bongoron » Thu May 11, 2006 5:54 pm
I remembered a thing that happened not too long ago. I learned from a visual check of my silent metronome that i have a tendency to rush when I play alone. this makes it harder for me to synchronize with a band when we get together (brutal self critique, humbling, but necessary). I started turning on the beeper for a larger percentage of the practice time at home. When I added more drums, the added activity eliminated my rushing at the higher tempos (probably should have seen that one coming), but aggrevated it at the slower ones...go figure. Once I get in my own band, though, all is well (not true in the church band where tempo problems plague many members). I think maybe I'm too rigid in practice sometimes and I miss the point. This week I missed two practices with the band, and the drummer sent me a message. He told the lead singer/guitar it really sounded empty when I'm gone, and that he can't believe how much difference those little fills make (I also play tumbao variations and pop rhythms throughout every song, obviuosly). That's what I needed right about now...pretty discouraging when the work schedule gets in the way of the band. Abakua's point about playing with others may be the biggest one for me, since the closest teacher I'm aware of is 2 hours away. Just relying on digital time keepers won't develop the groove, IMHO and experience. You need real people who are also looking for theirs. Good luck finding your groove! I'll bet it's right around the corner.
God bless!
-Ron