by 109-1176549166 » Wed Jul 11, 2007 8:57 pm
Thanks, JC, for re-affirming a lesson you learned from the "school of hard knocks".
I, myself, encountered this problem playing with my old band about 3 years ago. Ironically, my problem wasn't with the club owners. It was our drummer, who was the leader of our band. Some of my fellow bandmembers started complaining to me (I was their common confidant) about how they suspected that this drummer was shortchanging us because the accounting was too lax.
Initially, I gave our drummer the benefit of the doubt. To my disadvantage, I trusted him (I'm a trusting person)--perhaps, too much. When the apparent irregularity happened one too many times with our band, I finally confronted him.
Of course, he denied it and, frankly, I couldn't prove it beyond a shadow of doubt. So, I just told him that I'm simply leaving it between him and God and that I hope that he could sleep nights.
That just turned me off completely from his band and I soon enough left him. The other members left him shortly after. Now, he's suffering from a bad reputation and isolation for his greedy, idiotic, short-term business thinking.
Since then, I've focused mainly on being a freelance musician and booking primarily private gigs myself. So far, God-willing, I've been quite fortunate in this regard.
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